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Stable

Today was a pretty good day.  Lia is stable, so we're thankful for that.  She is using her pacemaker now, to help the two sides of her heart beat together instead of one side beating and then the other.  She's almost weened off her nitric oxide, but is still getting a lot of fluid pumped into her, which is making her extra-swollen.  The most swollen I have seen her after all these surgeries.  She is such a fighter!  She opened her eyes a couple of times today, not near as focused as yesterday, but she still opened them, and I loved seeing it!  She wiggled her feet a few times as well. 

After rounds this morning, our "big picture" goals over the next week are to 1) get her 'skinny' enough (reduce swelling) to get her chest closed , and 2) ween her off her ventilator.  There are a ton more "goals" I could list, but those are the big ones. 

My parents have gone home now, so it's just Ryan and I here.  Although, it has been wonderful to have all our family here, we are looking forward to a couple of days by ourselves.  We went out for dinner tonight(sushi!) and walked around Crown Center for a while.  It was nice to have some alone time together.

Here are a couple of pictures of when Jack came and played for a while at the RMD House, and a couple of Lia after her full repair surgery.

Jack was scared of Ronald.  He would only sit on the bench if I sat with him.

Lots of fun stuff to do at the house.

He wouldn't sit in the big rocking chair alone, so  I sat with him (and loved it). I miss him!!

Lia after her full repair.  She may be swollen, but shes still beautiful!  We hung up a "before picture" of her, taken clear back when we were in Wichita so all the doctors and nurses know what she really looks like.

Lia with all her tubes, wires, and lines.  Praising God everyday for the medical advancements and technology that is keeping her alive.

Comments

Tammy N. said…
So good to see you laughing and holding Jack. I've seen that Ronald...he IS scarey! "Stable" is Lia's friend right now. We'll be praying for that to continue, then add "Progress" each day. She is soooo beautiful! Even with some puffiness and tubes. What a precious picture, but someday she probably won't believe it is her. Rest well and do enjoy your couple time. I loved your comments about the peace you experienced...what a testament to your trust in God AND the power of prayer.
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Hey Ashley

Just wanted to let you know that we have been praying hard for you, Ryan, Jack and especially Lia. Love hearing that her surgery went well and we will be praying her body heals quickly. Keep strong you and Ryan are amazing parents! You have an amazing outlook on life and Lia's difficult situation. She is so lucky to have you!
Stephie said…
Dear Ashley, just a little note to let you know that we are praying for you and your beautiful Lia. I am Rick and Sarah Bolsem's daughter, living in Scotland. My dad and your grandpa Doug are cousins. My mom sent me a link to your blog and I've been reading for the past few days about your very challenging journey. I pray that God will put His healing hands on your daughter Lia and that you and your family will know His peace and presence with you. May you feel upheld by the Father's hands. Bless you. We are remembering you here.
Stephanie Ritchie
Elle said…
Praying for your precious girl and your family! I live in kc so if you have any questions, feel free to ask! Hang in there. God is good!
Hi Ashley, I found your blog through another link and thought I should stop by. My Husband is 39 years old and almost 3 years ago found he has TOF, he had his full repair done then. He is doing amazing today. Your little girl is in my prayers. You can ready our story at Jaxashmommy.blogspot.com, his surgery was in July of 2009.
Lia said…
I found your site through another blog and just wanted to let you know I am praying for your sweet sweet little girl, your family and the medical team. I am so glad Lia is stable and look forward to your updates.

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